My boyfriend complains of getting blue balls when things get steamy. But this only happens when something stops us from doing the deed. Like my period for instance,he says its painful and i feel bad for him.What should I do or say in a situation like this?

You should explain to him that women get uncomfortable from the congestion that arises from sexual arousal that does not get released via orgasm. Yes, it IS uncomfortable. But if it is that bad, he can go take care of himself, so to speak, or you two do not mess around when you have your period. It seems simple enough to fix to me. My point is, this is something the two of you can fix with good communication. You should not feel guilty.

chickita